1 year, 1 month ago
Because society has that stupid trope that all girls who have guy friends will inevitably fall in love with the guy friends be happily ever after what the f*** ever, it's just runs into that horrible nice guy trope were nice to you until they realize you're not going to sleep with them and then they leave bitching about how they were friend zoned--from the boyfriend perspective that makes you automatically sus of any dude that's being friendly, even subconsciously and/or there is some insecurity that needs to be examined. It's healthy to have friends of the opposite gender and if your woman has given you no reason to worry--don't. Get to know her guy friends and just have fun.
Contrary to the first answer, both men and women have emotions that are conditioned by chemicals in your brain. Humans, when near a desirable mate of the opposite sex go through a physiological shift in the default chemical balance in the brain, causing various reactions and emotions. That is inevitable, urges arise. Still, mindful humans are capable of resisting those urges if they want to. Take what you will from this, your fear is not unreasonable and your girlfriend may or may not cheat on you at any point in time. Either be OK with it or don't.
Because she is probably banging at least one of them. She always has an out.
If men with women can't be 'just friends' then bisexuals can't have any friends at all.
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